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Coming out 

Coming out is almost unique to LGBTQ+ people; a process of self-disclosure to ourselves and those around us. LGBTQ+ identities are frequently subjected to lack of visibility and coming out can be a liberating decision, allowing you to be your “true self” around others.

Coming out is never a single event - LGBTQ+ people are in a constant state of coming out to new people. While this can be exhausting, it can also be a blessing. You need not come out to everyone at once, and it is often better to come out to certain people first and build confidence. The process is inherently personal. There is no right, wrong, best, or worst way to come out. If you ever need help, advice, support, or affirmation, the resources listed on the Welfare Resource page will be available to provide you with support.

There is no pressure to come out – it’s a personal choice, not an obligation! Many choose to come out at university, and we hope that you won’t face any hostility should you choose to do so here at Oxford.

Take the steps which make you comfortable and happy. Often a good place to start is by coming out to your closest friends first. You’ll likely be surprised by the support and encouragement you receive from those around you.
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  • Sign Up
  • About Us
    • Our Work
    • Meet the Team
    • Fresher's Guide
    • Rainbow Parents
    • College Reps
    • Community Fund
    • Governing Documents
    • Report on the Duties of College Heads
  • Welfare
    • Welfare Resources in Oxford
    • Coming Out
    • Mental Health & Disabilities
    • Sexual Health >
      • Practicing Safe Sex
      • HIV and AIDS
      • Accidents Happen!
    • The Sex-Ed You Missed In High School
    • Sexual Violence >
      • What Is Sexual Violence?
      • Resources for Survivors
      • SARCs and Medical Attention
      • Contacting the Police
    • Domestic Abuse
    • Concealing Social Media
    • Over the Holidays
    • Anonymous Feedback Form
  • Resources
    • Ace & Aro >
      • What do "Asexual" and "Aromantic" mean?
      • Being Ace/Aro in Oxford
      • Ace/Aro Mythbusting
      • Ace/Aro Spectrum Glossary
      • Ace/Aro Resources
    • Bi & Pan >
      • What do Bisexual and Pansexual Mean?
      • Being Bi/Pan in Oxford
      • Bi/Pan terms and definitions
    • Trans & Non-Binary >
      • Overview
      • Guide to Transitioning
      • ... in Oxford
      • ... in the University
      • ... Medically
      • Support
    • Intersex >
      • What Does "Intersex" Mean?
      • Why and how is intersex LGBTQ?
      • Supporting Intersex Friends, Family, and Partners
      • Intersex resources
      • Glossary - Trans and Intersex
    • International >
      • Welcome!
      • Communities and Events
      • Healthcare, Welfare, Admin and Transitioning
    • Class
    • Faith >
      • Being Religious in Soc
      • Being Religious in Oxford
      • Further Resources
    • POC
  • Events
  • Escape!